Friday, March 15, 2013

Happy Marriage

       Lily and Alex have a happy marriage. Lily as youngest child is the baby of her family. She is outgoing, adventurous, optimistic, creative and easygoing just as Pamela Withers describes the youngest child.. She has a lot of idea to have fun and makes Alex's life colorful. Alex is oldest child. He is very responsible, a high achiever with parental qualities to care for his younger siblings as well as Withers thinks the oldest child. He feels good to care for Lily. Their personalities  supplement each other. When they are arguing, Alex is very easy to step back, considering Lily's feeling. He can tolerate Lily's indulge. Because his positive attitude, sometimes, he even enjoys Lily's pouting. They are good for each other. That is the key point for their happy marriage. 

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Lucille Forer's Description Is Accurate Of My Birth Oder

      How Your Birth Order Influences Your Life written by Lucille Forer is about bith order. According to Miss Forer's description, the middle child and another child shared the relationship with parents. Because parents have more experiences to be parents, so they aren't  too much tense and anxious. They are relax and easy to care for the middle child properly. The middle children enjoy a lot of advantages as a result of having more relaxed parents. They don't feel lonely as of  having siblings and don't need to be upset when they can't match parents expectation. Moreover, the middle child doesn't need to be a model of siblings and has a relax life. As a role of family, the middle child belicve he is smart, capable and easy going. He can deal with complicated things and develop more confidence.
      I agree with Lucille Forer's view. I am middle child. I got less presure from my parents. My life is light and relax. When I was a little girl, I understood I couldn't count on my parents and my elder brother and elder sister. So I tried to solve any problem what I have encountered. I have more freedom. My parents seldom worried about me. They though I was good and would be easy to get foothold in the society. I feel lucky I don't need to meet the high standars of my parents not as well as my elder brother who is the first grandson of my clan.

Friday, March 8, 2013

My Family

I have three siblings. I am middle child. The oldest one is my brother who is living in Houston. He is very nice, but sometime he is very bossy. He loves to play golf. My elder sister is living in mainland China. She is very smart. Sometimes she is annoying. I  had a lot of argue with her when we were children. But now I realize at that time I wasn't good. I should respect her even though she was talkative and tattletale. My mom lives with her. They are very closed and have a good relationship. My younger sister is also living in China. She is diligent and a hard worker. She is very interested in making money. She hopes to get promotion and earn more money.